Bra Fit - Do's and Don'ts

To find a bra that really fits seems like an impossibility most days. Either you are falling out of the top or bottom of the cup or you're getting pocked by underwires that seem to have been designed by a torturer from the Spanish Inquisition! Can't anyone design a good bra?! Yes and no. In this article, we cover the do's and don'ts of a good bra fit.

Is there a perfect bra on the market? Sorry, but no. The bra industry is so messed up, it is hard to know where to start talking about it. Do you realize that the brands can't even agree on how to measure the size? Some think the band size should be married across the upper area of the breasts, while others believe it should be just under them. Throw in the different sizing calculations by European and American manufacturers and it is rather amazing that bras fit at all.

How bad are things with bra sizes? One study in the United Kingdom focused on the reason behind women get breast reduction surgery. Do you know what they found? The reason was back and neck pain. Closer examinations revealed that the problem was not the size or weight of the breasts, but the fact that all 102 women in the study were wearing the wrong bra size!

Given this mess, how can we possibly be expected to find the right bra for our body types? In these modern times, the sad answer is trial and error is about the only way short of a professional fitting. With this in mind, here are some do's and don'ts to getting the best fit.

The number one issue with fitting a bra is the band size. The band running around the bottom of the bra should be providing most of the support. This means getting the fit right is critical. The band should run just under your breasts and then proceed at the same height all the way around your trunk and across your back. The band should not be higher on your back than it is on your front. Also, the band should be snug around your trunk, but not so tight as to cause you discomfort or breathing issues.

The second fit issue most women get wrong involves the cups. Women with larger breasts tend to where cups that are too small. Smaller breasted women tend to go in the opposite direction. The cup should fit snuggly around your breasts. If there are any gaps, you need a smaller size. In contrast, if you "flow over" the edge of the cups anywhere, you are wearing a size that is too small. Get the cup size right and you'll have a much more comfortable bra.

Nothing is as aggravating as being poked by underwire bras. Well, the poking should be a sign. If you are getting poked in the arm, the band size is too small. Go up a size. If you are getting poked in the breast or inside of the underarm area, the band size is too large. Try going down a size and see if it helps. If you are getting poked in derriere, you are either having way too much fun or have no idea how to wear a bra!

If you can get these three basic areas right with your bra, you'll have a better fit than the vast majority of women out there. You might also notice back and neck pain as well as headaches suddenly disappear.

Surprise Her With Sheer Lingerie

If you've been itching to find the perfect gift for your special girl, and your celebration is drawing near (whether it's an anniversary, birthday, Christmas, or even New Year), there is always one brilliant present idea that will thrill your girl and you. Why not kill two birds with one stone? A great way to bring out your gal's wild side is to give her a wild present, and there is no better idea than to give her sheer lingerie. Outrageous, sexual, and yet romantic all at once, lingerie will boost your girl's mood by a wide margin, and spice up your love life for years to come.

Lingerie has always come in various shapes and sizes, and since you are the gift-giver, you have the pleasure of getting to pick out what you want her to wear. After that, it gets even better! Be sure to pick the kind of lingerie you think she will like. Some girls may find it a turn-off if it looks 'trashy' in any way. Thongs, g-strings and similar wear often fall under that category. That is why sheer lingerie is the best choice - it is comfortable, lacy, and elegant. Your girlfriend or wife will find herself feeling more beautiful and sexy when she tries them on, and for your benefit, they are very easy to take off.

Men are often completely clueless when it comes to shopping for females. Unfortunately, the same thing can be said when you are shopping for lingerie. In fact, you will probably find yourself too embarrassed to walk into a store and examine their underwear section. Have no fear, because there are many lingerie shops online! You can save yourself the trouble and instead search for a website selling them, with only a couple of clicks with your computer mouse. Using the internet makes it much easier to surprise her with sheer lingerie, because you can easily browse through pages and pages of designs and find your desired product. Most websites even offer gift-wrapping, so that your present will be mailed immediately to her without question. Online shopping can help put the 'surprise' in 'surprise gift'!

If you are fretting over sizes, most online shops also offer advice to men about the measurements they need to confirm. If you remain unsure, then there is no harm in asking your own girlfriend or wife what their sizes are. Doing this will not spoil the surprise in any way because she will not assume that you are purchasing lingerie.

On the big day (or rather, big night), you can have a romantic dinner at home with your girl in order to set the mood. Do not try to rush things by suddenly presenting her with her gift. Teasing her will also heighten the anticipation, so that she will be absolutely gleeful when she unwraps her present. By giving her sheer lingerie, the night will surely be very enjoyable and incredibly special -- a pleasant surprise for the both of you.

Designer Lingerie Review - Di Murini Ivory Silk and Black Lace Chemise

Elegant 100% silk chemise with beautiful chantilly lace, double rouleau straps and pin tuck and bow details.

Personal Opinion:

Designer lingerie at it's best. This Di Murini chemise is beautifully crafted in the finest chantilly lace and european silk. I love it! It is super glamourous for the bedroom and beautifully finished! Great attention to detail has been paid on small features such as bows and straps and I think the lace on the hem is perfect and it mirrors the lace on the strap.The colours are timeless and elegant and would probably suit a more mature client!

This is a great piece of lingerie that would look great on all shapes and would give a slimming effect on those of us who are a little less shapely. It is a sexy and classic piece which has an elegant feel to it. The adjustable straps are great for comfort and provide a great fit. Definitely one of my favourites!

Comfort:5/5

Style:5/5

Fit:5/5

Designer Profile:

Di Murini, Location: London, England

Style: A hint of fun, a touch of elegance...total enchantment. Di Murini is classic and sensual for the woman who enjoys luxury, superior design and high quality lingerie.

Story: The 'Di Murini' story was inspired by the opulent glamour of old Hollywood, Di Murini is a divine blend of sumptuous ivory silk and stunning black Chantilly lace.

Hypnotique, Di Murini's previous name, was chosen as one of the recommended top lingerie gift brands in the Sunday Times Style Magazine (Nov. 25, 2007) and now appears regularly on TV, in the press and in international trade shows.

English Designer Lingerie is known for it's design skill, attention to detail and innovation and some of the dominant brands are:

Di Murini


Janet Reger

Eternal Spirits

What Katie Did Corsets

Vollers Corsets

Damaris

Mimi Holliday

Modern Courtesan

Yes Master


Miss Mandalay

Lingerie Review - Simon Perele Adelaide Mink Half Cup Bra

Unique Details:

A striking and unique boned soft cup balcony bra, with delicate satin bows and satin straps. Sexy, feminine and sultry, pure elegance!

Personal Opinion:

I think this bra is absolutely stunning and certainly a bra for the bedroom! Although colours are subtle and understated they add a hint of class and glamour and will suit all skin tones! The attention to detail is exquisite with great care being taken on the cups to create an eye-catching feature. The finishings are delicate and intricate which coincide beautifully with bold boned cups, and the satin straps add a hint of luxury and decadence. The intricate folded ribbon detail along the underband adds that special touch and draws attention to the chest. What more could you ask for!

The bra itself fits great with an added elastic running along the top cup edge to make sure it fit is snug. A bra for most occasions but watch out the half cup design is not for everybody! Also take care if wearing it on a date it may have a knock out effect.

To compliment the bra perfectly is a lace thong that mirrors the folded ribbon detail on bra. The soft satin fabric adds that luxurious feel and is the perfect coordinate! However, if you really want that wow factor the suspender belt is a must have! Its gorgeous satin fabric and lace boarder mirrors the bra and thong and is an ultra feminine garment to complete a sexy sultry set! With an added corset style lacing on the front to tempt! Perfect bedroom aubade lingerie - stunning!

Comfort: 5/5

Fit: 45

Style: 55