When you were dating or first got married he couldn't keep his eyes or hands off you. When he came home for work he was thinking about you. You two had sex at least once everyday on a bad week. You both went out to eat and talked and while you both were talking he was undressing you with his eyes. It was great. The man you loved couldn't get enough of you.
That's a memory now.
After going to work, paying bills, maybe having kids, and dealing with the 100s of little problems every married couple will eventually have the fire has been blown out. Not only blown out, I might add, but the candle that the fire was in has been dunked in water so that the next time you try to light the fire it's double the effort.
Now that we have identified the problem what are you going to do about it?
Here's a valuable marriage that I highly recommend you try.
Change your panties.
I know it sounds weird. I know you might be saying "that's it." "That's all you're going to tell me?"
And I say yes.
Add something different. He's been seeing the same thing every night and the thrill is gone. He loves you but at the same time he knows he has you. He's not chasing you anymore. And seeing you in regular plain cotton underwear will get old.
Put some red or black satin panties on and see if your husband doesn't notice. Maybe add a see through white flowing robe/nightgown to the mix.
Have you tried lycra. Its stretches and is very appealing to the eyes. (Word of caution though, please do not use lycra if you are prone to yeast infections.)
Have you tried leopard skin panties? If no, then why not? Have you considered wearing a thong? A G-string? Bikini cut style panties?
I've heard woman say that those styles of panties just are not comfortable. That entirely not true. You will get what you pay for. I can show you some lace satin panties that feel just as or more comfortable that Hanes Cotton Panties. You just have to experiment. Be creative. There are so many choices out there. Try Victoria's Secret. They have fabulous items.
My point, mix it up with your panties selection. Men are very visual and will without a doubt recognize you in your new black panties you are wearing. It will turn them on. You will be different woman in their eyes. You've morphed from wife to bombshell vixen.
So give it a try. That's something small that you can do on your end. That will not solve everything by any means but its the little things you do that make a marriage work.
So what are you waiting for. Do it today. Go to the department store or start surfing the net for some new panties. Make his friend jealous that he has you.
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