Saturday, December 27, 2008

Women's Bras - Yesterday, Today and Beyond

Bras have been around for thousands of years, but were not widely known until the Edwardian period. These bras did not look like the bras we know today. They were very utilitarian in design and had many straps and cinches to improve ones form.

Bras began to become main stream when Mary Phelps-Jacob patented her design in 1914. The prototype was actually made of two silk handkerchiefs and some baby ribbon. As in many cases Mrs. Phelps -Jacob was not able to make a business out of her prototype and sold the patent rights for $1500. The company that bought that patent made millions of dollars selling bras.

Women's breasts were now sized by inches and the industry exploded. In today's world the bra takes many forms and styles. Some are utilitarian like the first bras, but still look and wear like clothing. Many contemporary bras are now lingerie and are meant to be seen without outerwear. Shapers, under wire, minimizer, enhancer and many more styles are available to help women get their desired look.

Sports bras are an entire industry now. From a young age women use sports bras to help them compete and look good while doing a wide variety of activities. These types of bras became hugely popular when Brandy Chastain of the women's US national soccer team, ripped her shirt off and showed her sports bra to a cheering world when they won the championship.

Seeing models and sports figures in bras on the covers of magazines and billboards is commonplace now. We have become a society that sees undergarments as a fashion statement.

Friday, December 19, 2008

Spice Up Your Love Life

When you first fall in love there is always a feeling of excitement and anticipation, but then it grows into something deeper and more meaningful. This is when you become completely comfortable with each other. But this is also when a couple will sometimes go through a funk in their love life. They end up at a crossroads where they are not sure which way to turn. Well one of the best ways to kick start the intimacy in your relationship is with a trip to the lingerie store. Don't let your love life become stranded, take the right road and spice it up.

What about if your wife or girlfriend has not purchased any? If you are a man that wants to get things going again then you too can go out and purchase a nice piece of lingerie for your girl. But the first thing you will want to do is think about the person you are buying it for. Too often men will make the mistake of buying lingerie that they find sexy. So when you are looking to buy lingerie online, remember to look for the type of underwear that she likes. Slip in a few off hand questions to her or even go through and see what kind of underwear she has in her drawers, this is often a good suggestion as to what colors and materials she likes.

The next important part about buying lingerie for a woman is to remember size does matter. When you are looking through those drawers for what she likes, remember to check her bra and panty sizes. And what's more, if your lady is full figured then you may want to look into some body shapewear. These awesome pieces of underwear and lingerie help hold in the area's that need to be held in and accentuate those positives that you love so well. Furthermore, they will become a guaranteed favorite for your lady as she will feel super sexy all day long.

So now you have an idea of the benefits of shape wear, the colors and materials that she likes, as well as her size, but even this can sometimes lead you nowhere. If you have gathered all your lists and still cannot come up with anything then the best rule of thumb is to buy her something totally feminine. For example, look for something lacy and dark. They even have some beautiful girdles that are loaded with feminine frills. But if you are still stuck on a color, a good idea would be to stick with black as it a color that is very sexy and thinning, and most women feel great wearing it.

The final step is in finding the right piece of lingerie that fits all that you have on your list. A good thing to remember here is that high prices do not always mean the best underwear. Look for some of the great discount lingerie as it may just be slightly out of style, or just almost out of stock.

Saturday, December 13, 2008

When Was the Last Time You Checked Your Bra Size?

When was the last time you checked your bra size? Most women would say some time in their 20s! If only it were so easy! The truth is your body changes throughout your life, which means you need to reconsider your bra size.

Let's consider some basic anatomical things we all deal with as women. As you've matured, what has happened to your body? Are your thighs toned like when you were 22? Mine aren't and neither are most women's. [Sigh]. The same goes for the 'junk in the trunk" look, wrinkles and...well, why get depressed. The point is your body changes over time. Your upper body and breasts are no different.

As you age, your upper body will tend to grow thicker. You know - muffin tops and back fat. As we naturally thicken up a bit, we need to consider whether the bras we have still really fit. The band size may be too small. Indications of this would be getting poked in the inside or your arm when wearing underwire bras. This happens because the bra is too tight and the outer edge is being pulled. As it is pulled, the underwires tend to bend out which makes the points into little spears. If you are experiencing this, going up a band size can make a world of difference.

Unfortunately, the band size isn't the only issue we face. As we all know, the girls don't remain so perky as time passes. They naturally change shape each month as go through menstruation, but the passage of time ultimately introduced gravity to the body. This puts wear and tear on the Cooper's ligaments which hold the girls up. As the ligaments stretch, our breasts will hang lower and will actually change shape a bit. When this happens, the bra you wore in your twenties simply isn't going to cut it.

As the girls change, you need to consider the cup size and design of bras. You may want to switch to a balcony bra or some other bra that provides more support around the bottom of the cup. As to the cup size, consider how the girls fit in the cup. If there is extra space, the cup size is too big. If you are spilling over, the cup size is too small. Getting the right cup size will eliminate discomfort.

I'll admit it. I'll get into a routine and not really pay attention to the elements of that routine. Millions of women are wearing the wrong bra size because they do the same thing in their routines. This can lead to breast discomfort, shoulder pain, headaches, neck pain and poking. Take 10 minutes out of your day, put the bra you wear the most on and check to see if it really fits or not.

Friday, December 5, 2008

Evolution of Trends The Salong De Lingerie Paris 2009

The Salon de Lingerie in Paris is the first exhibition showing the collections for autumn/winter 2009. Taking place in the massive Porte des Versaille conference centre it attracts exhibitors and buyers from across the globe. This January saw a more subdued event with fewer exhibitors and buyers making the trip. Despite the lower turn out the mood was optimistic and the collections more focussed than in previous years. Jos Berry from Concepts Paris identified the 6 key trends for the season:



  1. Real Corsetry

  2. Funky Couture

  3. Flowers with a difference


  4. Romantic Naturals

  5. La Belle Epoque

  6. Geometric


o Real corsetry Structured and seamed pieces were prevalent for the autumn/winter 09. Satin and retro constructions were seen in the Der Kommisar and Sonia Rykel collections. There is more and more coverage over the torso with an increase in teddies and bodies. Jolidon combines the all in one style with seductive fabrics and the traditional colours of black and red. Suspender belts have followed this trend by becoming wider and more cinch-like in design.

The trend of real corsetry reflects the importance of tradition and heritage in lingerie while the new technology has made the designs more practical to wear in busy modern day life.

o Funky Couture Lace is major trend with guipure embroidery in combination with satin, targeted at younger women. Made by Niki is a perfect example of the use of traditional look and fit with modern colour combination. Marjolaine also reflects this in their silk nightwear combining lime green and cerise pink.

This funky new design has also spread to maternity wear, companies such as Hot Milk! and Agnes et Ses Princes use trimmings and bold printed fabrics to ensure femininity in these function pieces.

o Flowers with a difference Flowers are an enduring staple in lingerie design. English roses were used beautifully by Odille and Karen Millen, printed on satin with contrasting ribbons, bows or ruffles. Printed lingerie used organic floral development with soft colour contrasts, grey being used heavily in lavender and smoky tones.

o Romantic naturals Companies such as Calida and Hanro have moved back to their roots using natural cotton in their collections. The subdued colours available in cottons give a soft romantic palette with soft greys and beiges. Designers have taken classic designs and used handkerchief weaves and chunky lace detailing to give a contemporary edge.

Streetwear has been a notable influence using layering and adding knitted sweaters and garments have been re-proportioned to be more risqué while utilising old fashioned pointelle knits.

There has been an increased use of organic and biodegrable cottons but not at the expense of femininity. An extension of the use of cotton has been the spread of the preppy American college look epitomised by Venus et Jules.

o La Belle Epoque La Belle Epoque celebrates the eccentricity at this seasons show. The rich opulent colours combined with the seductive silky textures evoke an Art Nouveau drawing room. There has also been a strong influence of Liberty prints further adding to the richness of the collections. Improvements in technology allow designers to break the rules and move away from the traditional structure of pieces. Valery produced a beautiful collection incorporating a 2 way stretch taffeta in opulent colours.

o Geometric Geometric prints and design have made a steady impact over the past few year but they finally appear to be coming into their own. The innovative designs from Marlies Dekkers are clearly influencing the mainstream lingerie. Straps that cross at the back and additional straps across the décolletage and around the neck add sexiness through strong definite lines.

The improvement in the quality of printing geometric patterns has helped increase the popularity. The deep inky colours of the season benefit from the clear lines in the graphic designs.

Each year the Salon de Lingerie provides the focus of the next seasons lingerie trends and with the continuing innovation in fabrics and designs it will remain the most important event for the industry year after year.

Saturday, November 29, 2008

Wholesale Lingerie For Retail Businesses

Although it is not brand name, wholesale lingerie can be very sexy.  Most companies offer a variety of lingerie including bridal lingerie, chemise, thongs, bras, garters, corsets, panties, and others.  Wholesale lingerie companies generally provide products for resale businesses.  Some companies will not sell to you unless you give them proof that you have a business.

What to Look For in Wholesale Lingerie

Wholesale lingerie companies aim to offer low prices for retail businesses.  You want to look for the company that offers the widest variety of lingerie at the lowest price.  Most companies do not care if you're just starting out or if you're an established business, they offer reasonable prices.  It is the affordable wholesale prices of lingerie that make a business desirable.

Some companies are located in America and others are located overseas.  Luckily, with the booming technology that is available, you can place orders online once you have viewed the selection.  Since they are selling to stores, there is usually a minimum that you need to spend, for example, $300.  Their prices usually start as low as $2 or $3 a piece so obviously they are going to require you to order a mass amount. 

In most cases, companies allow you to use their photos for selling purposes.  This means that you are welcome to use the same photographs of the products for your website or company that they do.  Check into this, however, because you don't want to deal with copyright charges.  Their website also usually offers really user-friendly search options so that you can easily find styles and colors that you're looking for.  They also offer easy payment methods like PayPal or via credit cards.

Why Is Wholesale Lingerie So Inexpensive?

There are different reasons for the low prices.  Oftentimes, prices are so low because the products are manufactured in warehouses overseas where they perform labor for less money.  Also, while the prices are low per piece, they require that you order in very large quantities.  If they were aiming to sell to individuals then they would not be very successful but since they're aiming for businesses they do okay, as $300 is basically nothing for most companies.

Most companies also do not have that big of a profit margin per customer so they are able to keep their prices at a minimum.  You would think that this would be a stupid business decision but even a low profit margin multiplied by a huge number of customers does not end up being a very low profit.  This benefits everyone because then businesses get more for their money and the wholesale lingerie company makes money too.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Men Love Traditional Sexy Lingerie

You don't need to necessarily wear the black leather dominatrix suit with stiletto boots.  For many people, traditional lingerie is sexy lingerie!  Obviously you will have to toss the granny panties but you can turn old fashioned into hot.

Can Traditional Lingerie Be Sexy Lingerie?

Take the sexy silk lingerie look, for example.  No matter the color, silk dances exotically on a woman's body.  Ruby red silk with black lace is particularly popular and sensual, especially when there's a plunged neck.  In general, lace is attractive, alluring, and sexy for any man.  On top of the attractive physical appeal, lace feels good to the touch.  Lace is probably the most traditional and popular material for lingerie.

Lace continues to be popular even after centuries because of the way that it flows on the curves of the female body.  You can find lace lingerie that covers body parts or some that is see-through but even the transparent pieces are tasteful.  Any color lace can be sexy whether it is black, white, red, pink, or green.  Plus, matching lace bras with lace panties equals sexy lingerie! 

Any lingerie can be sexy, it is not what it is but how you present it.  Consider pin-up women, for instance, they are some of the sexiest women alive.  They wore old fashioned lingerie, similar to granny panties but much more sexual.  The tops that they wore were generally old fashioned, pointy-looking bras.  With a shirt on, this looks silly, however, when it is alone, it is sexy.  There is nothing sexier to a man than a pin-up woman.

Another traditional but sexy lingerie look is a corset with panties and a garter clip that attaches to knee-high tights.  Most of the time these outfits are dark like a deep red or purple and worn with high heels.  Does this remind you of a burlesque dancer?  If so that is good because that's the idea.  Burlesque dancers are very intimate and sexy, they show just enough, like a tease.  This is great particularly for foreplay because it takes the idea of strong and sexy woman and puts it right in your bedroom.

Why Men Love Traditional Sexy Lingerie

Men are very simple creatures and there's no better way to show them that you're in the mood than by showing off your body for them.  It is very arousing to have a woman lying in the bed in some sexy lingerie and sometimes it is the more old fashioned look that works the best.

Saturday, November 15, 2008

Everyone Needs Hot Lingerie in Their Lives!

Lingerie is a French term that is defined as women's intimate apparel.  When someone hears the word lingerie, it depicts a sexy feminine image.  Some people don't like to spend money on lingerie because it is not "comfortable" or it is too expensive.  But nobody said it was cheap OR easy to be sexy!

Why Hot Lingerie is Important

Nowadays, companies are coming out with the most beautiful and eccentric lingerie that we have ever seen.  Some people are using these new designs to their advantage but others still have the same old boring opinion on it.  What many women do not understand is that there are reasons why they need to have hot lingerie.

With hot lingerie comes this new amazing confidence.  When you go out to dinner and you know that under your clothes you have this alluring lingerie on, you're going to find that you're walking differently, talking differently, and acting differently.  It's this unspoken confidence that comes over a woman that just makes you feel fantastic!  Plus, anyone that is with you or around you also notices this confidence and confidence is sexy!

Believe it or not, hot lingerie can improve your self esteem as well.  This is because when you choose your lingerie, you're picking out a set that is going to be flattering for you.  You're going to pick lingerie that is flattering for your individual features.  When you know you look good and you feel good, your self esteem can only benefit, it is like setting yourself up for success and obviously that raises self esteem.

Hot lingerie is beneficial for you and your significant other because it'll make you feel feminine, sexy, and wild.  Hot lingerie just gives you this sense of adventure and excitement.  Hot lingerie can add spark into a relationship that is still booming with sexuality or one that has been lacking.  Men are turned on by seeing their women in this sexy state and knowing that it is all for them!  You have to remember that men are very visual and hot lingerie can make them eat out of your hands!

If you're uncomfortable with your body, do not fear, you can still find hot lingerie that works for you.  There is such a variety of lingerie offered that anybody can find some to fit their shape.  Plus, there is even lingerie that is sold that can change your shape if that's what you want to do.  In fact, some lingerie is made specifically to cover or alter problem spots.

Friday, November 7, 2008

How to Steam Up the Mirror With Adult Fancy Dress Outfits

Fancy dress outfits seem to be quite a hit at all of the adult parties as well as in the bedroom behind closed doors. Now most people do not really know about fancy dress outfits or the purpose that they hold.

These costumes can be worn at any type of function where costumes can be worn; or if you are looking for something a bit sexier, you can find costumes that are designed for the bedroom, it all just depends on what you are looking to get and the purpose behind it.

If you are looking for fancy dress costumes that you can wear to a costume party, there are tons of choices at your fingertips. The best place to find these outfits is online. You can use the Internet to literally find any type of fancy dress costumes out there; they come from all over the world.

Some of the most popular men's fancy dress outfits are outfits that are from years back when you were teenagers. This could have been back in the 1960's 1970's or even the 1980's!

These costumes are on the nostalgic side and they are quite popular. If you are striving to look like your favorite Hollywood stars, you will also be able to find tons of these fancy dress outfits all over the Internet! The most popular one right now is the Elvis Presley one, how great would your man look as Elvis?

For the women, you have to go with something that is tasteful, yet completely sexy. When you dress up and you get to a party you want to receive compliments and you want to feel sexy as you walk through the party.

If this is your goal, then look for a costume like a sexy fairy with wings and a wand? Or you could even dress up as a little kitten as well, the possibilities are just endless! Sexy pirates are also in style as well and you will be able to find these are nearly on every fancy dress outfits website.

Most costumes will run for around $50 which is fairly reasonable considering what you are getting and how long it is going to last. For the women if you go for something a bit sexier than usual, remember that you can also use that costume to drive him wild in the bedroom. Men can do the same for their women as well with their fancy dress outfits.

If you feel that you are ready to go for it and buy you and your partner a fancy dress outfit, then hop online and see what you can find. All it takes is a simple search for three words and in seconds you are going to be linked to thousands of fancy dress outfits websites.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Have a Sexy Night With Your Mate With a Pirate Fancy Dress Outfit

In the bedrooms of many couples today, you will find an assortment of lingerie, clothes, specialty costumes, such as pirate fancy dress outfits, etc. This comes as no surprise that the number of woman and couples have increased in fancy dress wear. The idea that enticing and stimulating your partner by being sensual in dress attire is increasing dramatically and does not seem to be slowing down.

Contrary to popular belief years back, role playing in the bedroom not only has increased, but the attire that can be worn is seeing a bigger selection. There are a variety of roles that a woman can assume in order to strike a chord with her man in the bedroom!

The standard French maid outfits and school girl outfits are available, as they always will be. They are classic pieces and symbolize where fancy dress came from. In the more recent years, official roles have sparked the interest of couple all around and woman have now assumed the role of a police officer that comes equipped with handcuffs, a baton and more.

Some outfits ever come with evidence! The detail on most of these fancy dress outfits are quite detailed unlike you might expect. Manufacturers have taken note of the trend and are now making very life like and creative costumes and role play items in general.

The Pirate fancy dress is one of the newer items that have recently come to the forefront. Not only does it portray a sexy woman, it also invigorates that avid pirate fan. Many people, men and woman alike, fantasize about the pirate life. Most of it rugged and intriguing on many fronts, pirate fancy dress will bring out the wild side of any woman. The pirate fancy dress is especially noted for the detail that is put into it.

Most pirate fancy dresses come with an under skirt, dress and corset piece to complete the busty outfit image. The corset piece helps to cinch the waste and uplift the breast to add the appearance of an hour glass figure that many men find extremely attractive. If it does not come with a corset or bustier piece, it will in turn come with a lace up style front or lace up style back which serves as the same purpose.

Like all fancy dress outfits, the pirate fancy dress comes in many varieties. Above we discussed the actual dress. They also some with pirate pants as well as short sets. The top is usually a cropped top and is jagged at the bottom or tied in the middle.

The pants and shorts themselves also have a jagged edge and are usually completed with a form of a belt. This is usually a red tie belt with black pants or shorts. The set is very comfortable, flexible fun and sexy!

Friday, October 24, 2008

How Often Are You Really Washing Your Bras?

Ask any woman how often she washes her bras and you'll probably be told it is none of your business! If pushed, she'll undoubtedly say she does it after every wearing. As we all know, that isn't exactly the truth.

How often are you really washing your bras? It is the rare woman that does it after every wearing. Why? Well, it has to do with the cleaning process. A bra should be hand washed and then hung up on a line to dry. That requires a lot more effort than just throwing it in the washer and dryer.

Most women wash their bras intermittently. We all have a rotation of bras. You might have anywhere from three to six that you just wear one after the other. When time permits or your think the bras are duty, you'll take the time to wash them. Yes, it sounds a bit nasty, but that's the way we all seem to work if we are honest.

And what about those women who wash them every time they wear them? The vast majority of you [it certainly doesn't include me!] are throwing them in the washer and dryer. To each their own, but bras cleaned in this manner tend to fall apart. You can go through tens of thousands of excess dollars in bras over your lifetime if you keep taking this approach.

So, how often should you wash a bra? As a general rule, you should wash it after every second wearing. Now there are obvious exceptions to this rule. If you just finished running five miles, you really need to wash that sports bra before wearing it again. If you wear a particular bra only every so often, that should probably be washed after each wearing as well.

There are some definite steps you want to take to make your bra last as well. Hand washing is a must. Bras are called "delicates" for a reason. Washers and dryers will leave them out of shape and in tatters. Make sure to use an undergarment detergent, which tends to be less harsh that chemical clothing detergents. Finally, let your bras air dry. The heat in a dryer is devastating to the plastic areas of your bra.

Bras are one of the fundamental parts of any wardrobe. Take care of them and they will last for a surprisingly long time. While washing frequency is important, it is really how you wash them that will make all the difference.

Saturday, October 18, 2008

The Lingerie Football League - No Joke

The idea of mixing lingerie with the NFL Super Bowl produced the lingerie bowl, a marketing stunt designed to pull in viewers. Well, they're taking it to a new level. Yes, there is a lingerie football league and it starts play this coming September.

As you might imagine, the lingerie game is played slightly differently. Instead of 11 versus 11, the teams each have seven players on the field at any one time. Yes, the ladies do play in lingerie, although they really stick to brief. They also wear pads and helmets, so the effect isn't really what one would imagine. There are no women running around in corsets or anything like that.

The rules of the game are generally the same as most football games, but there are exceptions. No punting or field goals are allowed, which already makes this better than the NFL. The field is only 50 yards long, which is half as long as what you see in the NFL. Each half is only 15 minutes long as well.

The Lingerie Football League has 10 teams spread out across the country. In no particular order, they are:



  • Dallas Desire

  • San Diego Seduction

  • Seattle Mist

  • Los Angeles Temptation


  • Tampa Breeze

  • Atlanta Steam

  • Miami Caliente

  • Denver Dream


  • Chicago Bliss

  • New England Euphoria

So, is this just a joke? Well, it certainly seems like the idea of a marketing team somewhere. That being said, the teams are playing for real and the game is essentially the same thing you see in the Arena Football league. The players were helmets and play with pads, so it isn't a complete joke.

It goes without saying that the league certainly falls into the exploitation area of marketing similar to beer commercials and what have you. I am sure you can come up with your own opinions on that perspective, but I am more interested in another subject. Playing football in lingerie - doesn't that sound uncomfortable? These women are definitely not wearing sports bras. Running without a sports bra is bad enough, but tacking people as well? Ouch!

I actually enjoy watching the NFL during games. I would get fired up about the offensiveness of the Lingerie Football League, but this league has failure and bankruptcy written all over it.

Friday, October 10, 2008

How to Buy Lingerie For the Woman in Your Life

Lingerie is a very intimate gift; and one that can keep on giving! But, buying lingerie for your lover can be a bit intimidating. How do you know what size she is, what would look best on her, what style she'd like and be most comfortable in, etc? These are all important questions to ask yourself, although, they may not always be the easiest to answer.....correctly. Hopefully these pointers will help.

What's Her Size?

Figuring out what size she wears is a great place to start. The best way to get her size correct is to find some time when you can, respectfully, peek in her "panty" drawer. Take a look at both her underwear size (can be listed as both S, M, L, etc or 2, 4, 6 ,8 , etc) and her bra size (these are listed with both a letter and number, for example 34C, or 38B).  You'll need both these measurements to get the piece that fits her best.

If you can't find an opportunity to do this, try chatting with her best friend or sister; someone that knows her well and knows you and your love for her. They might be able to provide some helpful advice, especially if they shop with her from time to time. Or, find a moment to creatively ask her, without giving your intentions away of course.

Probably the worst idea is to guess at her size. If you get it wrong there's a strong possibility that your gift will make her feel upset and/or self conscious instead of sexy, and you just might be in for a night of unhappiness instead of the passion you were hoping for.

What Will Look Best on Her?

While size is important so is buying the right piece of lingerie for her body type. For example, if your partner is voluptuous and "well endowed" in the bust, a negligee (a loose often sheer gown) or baby doll teddy (a short gown that is fitted around the bust then flares out near the hemline) is a great choice for her because it helps draw attention to her assets; her beautiful curves and bountiful bust, while hiding things she may be less comfortable with like a large belly or bottom.

On the other hand, if your amour is tall and slim, a nice corset (a tight fitting garment that usually covers the bust and cinches the waist) and garter belt will help make her smaller bust and curves more noticeable while the garter belt helps to accentuate her long and sexy legs.

In general, buying lingerie that will suit her unique and beautiful body will be pretty easy if you simply look for pieces that enhance her assets and help hide those areas that you know she may feel......less than thrilled about.

What Will She Feel Most Comfortable In?

You also need to really consider your lover and her personal style. If the piece you buy is too far away from what she will feel comfortable in, you may not be doing anyone any favors.

At the same time though, if the two of you have discussed certain fantasies and these include unique lingerie that under normal circumstances wouldn't remind you of her; in this case, it's probably alright (and will likely even be fun) if you go ahead and buy a piece like this. Just make sure it's a mutual fantasy you've discussed together, and not a personal one of yours you're just hoping she'll agree to.

On the quest for the perfect piece of lingerie that will make your partner feel comfortable, it's also important to look at the fabrics that the pieces are made from. Lace, satin, and silk are probably the best material choices for situations in which you're just not sure what type of material she'd like. They feel nice on the skin, are comfortable and usually aren't too over the top style wise.

Lingerie also comes in leather, velvet, Lycra, and even PVC (polyvinyl chloride). Buying pieces made of these materials is best done when she is with you and can try them on though. It's usually really important that lingerie made of these types of materials fit really well simply because of the way they hug the body.

Presentation Is Also Important

The finishing touch on an intimate gift like this is how you actually present it to her. You can simply wrap up the package and give it to her as a stand alone gift. Or, you could also give her the lingerie as part of a larger gift that will help set the mood for the evening. For example, you might want to create a basket or gift bag and include some scented lotions, candles and /or a bottle of champagne; things like this that will look nice as well as help create a romantic atmosphere to go with the sexy lingerie.

Now that you know a bit more about what you're looking for, your lingerie shopping trip will hopefully be much more fruitful, and your special night with your special lady will be all that you both had hoped for.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Should Your Underwear Match Your Bra?

Most women understand there are definite color combinations that work from a fashion sense when it comes to one's outfits. Ah, but what about the foundation garments? Should your underwear match your bra or is it really not that big a deal?

Presented with the question of whether panties and bras should match, most women would automatically say they should and rightly so. We are taught from a young age that outfits much match. Surely this applies to our undergarments as well, right? Right? Still, the question bears some consideration. After all, who is really going to know if we wear blue panties and a black bra while at work assuming there are no romantic adventures going on? It is a valid question, but one never knows when you might end up in a compromising position. This is why your panties and bra should match as a general rule.

Although your undergarments should always match, there is room to broaden the exact meaning of "match."

Specifically, we can find room to maneuver with panties. The classic consideration that a red bra should be matched with red panties simply isn't always true. You can also go with what are known as neutral color panties.

The neutral colored panties have an additional advantage in that they can be worn with a variety of bras, which means you don't have to buy the matching panties to the bra if you are looking to save money. As you well know, the prices of bras and panties can be surprisingly different. We are all looking to save some money these days, so this strategy can make a real difference when you are shopping.

There is one area that does get abused by women when mixing and matching bras and panties. While color seems the most important aspect, the actual texture of the two foundation garments is definitely an important second factor. You know this instinctually on major mismatches. You wouldn't wear a sports bra with a g-string. The same should go for other undergarments with less contrast. Similar textures and materials tend to go together much better.

Match the color and texture of your undergarments is a smart rule of thumb to follow with your outfits. To save a few dollars, consider stocking up on neutral panties you can mix and match with different bras.

Friday, September 26, 2008

Bring on Your Man's Style With a Men's Fancy Dress Outfit

Whether you are looking to spice things up in the bedroom a little bit or if you are attending a costume party of some sort there is a wide variety of men's fancy dress that you can dress your man up in! You can find a lot of men's fancy dress online; all you need to do is look online and pick the costumes that you would like to see him in.

Now, let's talk about the actual costumes that you will find. These costumes are meant for either the bedroom or for going to some sort of costume party, they are quite popular around Halloween. Some of these costumes can include a sexy pirate or even as simple as a cute little military outfit. You can find these costumes for both men and women when you are looking online.

When it comes to price you can expect to pay anywhere from $20 all the way up to $75, it just simply depends on the men's fancy dress costume you are looking to get. If you are thinking about simply spicing it up in the bedroom, then look for male thongs that your man can wear in bed. Any men's fancy dress is meant to spark up any bedroom situation or even a lively party.

When you get online and you start looking for a men's fancy dress costume, you need to have a price range and you need to have a costume in mind. If you have a man's man on your hands, then look into buying him a police or even a ninja costume of some sort. These costumes can be bought for any time of the year for any sort of occasion!

If you are having trouble trying to think of a good men's fancy dress costume, you can easily find this information online as well as reviews on different costumes that come from different companies.

Each online site is going to have a different variety of costumes, so it is up to you to find the right men's fancy dress. Try to look for cool accessories as well, if your man is going to be a handsome pirate or a dashing military man, then look into accessories such as plastic swords and fake little pistols. Anything that give the costume a real effect to it, is going to make everything more lively than it already was!

Costumes these days are not just for little kids or for Halloween trick or treating. Sometimes adults like to get in touch with their inner child and sometimes it is all about making the bedroom a spicier place.

Most women are even a little bit afraid to try anything new in the bedroom and if you are one of these women, you need to get past that fear and see how much fun dress costumes can actually be, especially men's fancy dress costumes.

Do a little bit of detective work and sneak around while you husband is at work and get him a costume that is going to make him feel masculine but incredibly sexy as well. For the most part, these costumes are easy to find and they are very affordable as well.

People tend to think that products for the bedroom are expensive, but fancy dress costumes are decently priced and can be shipped and delivered to you within a few days. Ladies, it is not going to hurt to take five minutes out of your day to look around at men's fancy dress costumes, you may be surprised by what you actually find!

Saturday, September 20, 2008

Getting a Ladies' Fancy Dress Outfit For Every Occasion

Every October women everywhere shop for that perfect outfit to pull out on for All Hallows Eve. Dressing up as witches or voluptuous movie stars allows them to portray some sort of sex symbol and have fun. Even men can't resist dressing up to accent their ladies costume, that's half the fun anyways!

Halloween is widely known as the most fun time of year to dress up as your favorite vixen or sex kitten and have a night out on the town to show off your foxy side. But you're looking for something to spice up the rest of the year, and your lingerie collection isn't quite cutting it. You're looking for something exciting and sure to grab his attention and fill his every fantasy.

You're looking for something fancy and guaranteed to please. On the website you can find an assortment of costumes that will stir up some excitement and leave you feeling sexy and confident in front of your man and the mirror.

Whether it's a sexy schoolgirl uniform you're looking for or a playful yet dominate cop, you can find whatever it is that gets you going. There's a wide variety of fancy dresses to choose from. Shopping online offers a secure and wonderful sense of privacy when searching for that special outfit. You are sure to find what you search on your favorite search engine for 'ladies fancy dress.'

But you may still be trying to convince yourself of a reason to be shopping for such an outfit. There are plenty of reasons that suit everyone's needs! Buying a dress can help you and your partner fulfill that romantic idea of living out all of your wildest fantasies. Or perhaps it's a catalyst to help you get into character for your favorite role playing activity behind closed doors. The costumes offered on this website are sure to boost your sex appeal and heighten your sexual aura.

The outfits available differ from the items you'd typically find in your lingerie drawer. They are more detailed, offer a fabulous sense of fantasy and provide a look that is unique and sexy. Women everywhere are choosing to buy sexy fancy dresses to spice up their sex life, or add a little fun to a lingerie party.

These costumes aren't just for Halloween anymore, now you can pull them out of your closet and wear them for that sexy party you're attending. If the party invite hasn't been sent just yet, consider throwing one yourself! All of your girlfriends will surely love an excuse to get done up and have fun in some sexy fancy dresses, and your men are sure to do the same!

Buying an outfit is also a great way to feed your kinkiest fetish! The outfit puts you in the driver's seat. Consider the cop uniform, and the sexy dominatrix power that comes with the outfit. Your partner is sure to obey your laws and hope anything he says will be held against him! Or try the seductive maid outfit; you could surprise your spouse by cleaning the house in a sexy uniform he's unlikely to expect.

There's nothing sexier than a seductive surprise! But these costumes don't have to be used solely for sexy reasons; there is also a wide variety of tamer costumes available that can be used for parties!

We've all been invited to that fantastic theme party and had a clever costume in mind. Sometimes it proves difficult to execute your daydream of that perfect outfit to wear, but now you have a solution! Just by visiting this site will allow you to preview the array of costumes available. You can find that provocative number you've been looking for, or that matching 70's couples costume too!

The prices are very reasonable and affordable. They also offer wigs and hats and matching costumes for your mate! There are many attractions to buying these outfits, from fulfilling fantasies and feeding fetishes to sporting a sexy alternative at your next lingerie party, everyone is sure to find what they need on this website! Forget about saving your dress up days for the one day of the year everyone else does it; be bold and spice things up now!

Friday, September 12, 2008

Subtle Bra Issues to Watch Out For

We all have our favorite bras. You know - the couple that you wear over and over despite the fact you bra drawer has about 10 others that have magically appeared over the years. If you aren't careful, however, you can run into subtle bra problems and not realize it.

Let me ask you a question that might seem obvious. Do you suffer from headaches or back pain? You're probably thinking that everyone does and, well, you're right. Stress does a number on all of us, but you might just find that the big "S" isn't the problem. Instead, it could be how your girls are interacting with your bra.

Your bra should provide support from the bottom up, not the top down. What does this mean? It means that your bra should not hang from your shoulder. The band around the base should be the primary support mechanism. Do you have red marks on your shoulders where the straps sit? If so, you are wearing the bra incorrectly and are likely suffering back and neck pains as well as headaches. Switching to a bra that provides support from the bottom will make a world of difference.

Assuming you have the bottom up approach correct, another subtle problem that can arise is the sliding back issue. Your bra should ride parallel around your torso. This means that if you put your arms up and look in a mirror at your side, the band of the bra on the front and back of your torso should be at the same level. Fortunately, this tends to be the case just naturally in the way we put our bras on. That doesn't mean a problem can't still arise.

Your bra moves about during the day. As it moves, fitting problems can come to forefront. One of the common, but subtle, issues is the band starts to ride up your back. As you go through the day, it will slide slightly higher and higher. You may not notice it, but it will cause you to hunch your shoulders and will also remove most of the support in the front. Look at yourself from the side the next few days when you get home and change clothes. If you find your bra doing this, try tightening the band. Sometimes, you just have to settle for readjusting it every afternoon. Regardless, you will feel better once you stop hunching your shoulders.

For most women, getting a handle on these two issues can make a huge difference in how comfortable a bra is. Worn as intended, bras can be a real joy.

Saturday, September 6, 2008

Tights and Other Hosiery Add Spice to Any Wardrobe

Tights, stockings, pantyhose, holdups, and thigh highs are all types of hosiery. And yes, hosiery is practical, but it's more than that. Depending on your mood and desire, hosiery can be sensuous, luxurious, elegant, sexy, or fun. If your hosiery collection lacks any of these essential fashion accessories, consider upgrading right away.

Thinking of tights conjures up images of court jesters, ballet dancers, and little girls. My grandbaby wears lovely tights to match her outfits. Stripes, patterns, stars, bright colors, subtle tones-by three years old she could choose the right tights to go with her dresses and little skirts. Girls used to abandon tights for shear stockings when they reached a certain age. But now, old and young, anyone can wear colorful and stylish tights, even funky designs. The right tights can turn a simple skirt set into a dynamic fashion statement.

Let's not forget the warmth factor. If you live in the north as I do, you know how hard it is to be both warm and fashionable in winter. With thermometers turned down, legs need cover even inside these days. Wool or cotton tights are the solution. The subtler styles are perfect for work-more appropriate for the office than long underwear and warmer than shear pantyhose. Jazz it up a bit for an evening out, and you've got warmth and style.

Tights aren't just for women, either. Tights designed for men replace socks and underwear with one garment. Breathable fabrics make them ideal for athletics, leisure, and work all year round. Bold and confident men may even choose from the larger sizes of women's styles.

Hold ups and thigh highs expand your hosiery options. They give you the feel and look of stockings without the bother of a garter belt or the confinement of pantyhose. Lacy silk or silicone tops make the hold ups lie comfortably flat against your thighs and prevent them from sagging.

If you're looking for classically sensuous hosiery, nothing beats the soft and smooth feel of silk against your skin. Natural silk fibers transport moisture away from your body, making you feel light and comfortable, never sweaty. The ultimate indulgence, silk pantyhose or hold ups make an important occasion even more special.

Fishnet hose and seamed stockings are back on the fashion scene after years of hibernation. They can lend a funky or elegant stylishness to your outfits. Just make sure those seams are straight!

Hosiery puts the finishing touch on any outfit. Whether you wear the lightest of shears or the boldest of tights, you will look and feel better when your legs are embraced by quality hosiery.

Pretty Polly, Aristoc, Gypsy, and Kunert are all hosiery brands. They are just a few of the dozens of designers of fashion forward and traditional tights, stockings, pantyhose, hold ups, and thigh highs. Most clothing outlets and department stores carry a variety of hosiery, but for the best selection, look at hosiery sites on the web. Quality online sites may carry 15 or more types of hosiery by more than 25 different designers. Let your imagination go wild and have fun!

Friday, August 29, 2008

Make the Seamless Bra Your Everyday Bra

Seamless bras are a "must have" in your wardrobe. Nothing looks better in tight clothing than smooth and invisible shaping. A good seamless bra will do wonders for your outfit and your figure.

Seamless bras are the number one "every day" bra. Seamless bras are often called the t-shirt bra because they are the year-round staple bra and can be worn even under the tightest clothing. They do not show through tops. They are comfortable. They provide streamline support. What more could you want?

Seamless bras come in a variety of styles. There are seamless sports bras, strapless bras, plunge bras, full figure bras, etc... Seamless bras have a variety of cups, too. Cups are foam, molded, unpadded, padded, lined, and unlined. The main idea is that they are smooth and invisible. The best seamless support bras are the molded and foam cup bras. They give that little extra lift to a plus sized woman. They also hide the dreaded nipple poke through effect.

Seamless bras, like any bra, work best when you wear the correct size. Get yourself fitted or do a self-measuring. Women can change sizes throughout the year, especially during the holidays. A good fitting bra will keep you healthy and supported. You also can avoid back fat and other bulges from a wrong sized bra.

In this tough economy, you need to be as professional as possible. Seamless bras help. They do not distract the focus. Men are very visual and can get distracted with a few bulges, lines, etc... Seamless bras look smooth and professional. People will not be thinking of your bra and the lines being conveyed. They will be thinking of you.

These bras are also great for modesty and confidence. When you put on a seamless bra, you have no worries. They are conservative because they are hidden. They help with confidence because you do not have to worry about your bra showing. You can just focus on the person you are with. There are times for a sexy lace bra but in the everyday world, you should wear a seamless bra.

You should have at least 3-5 everyday seamless bras. They are your everyday bra and you need enough in order to rotate and wash. Having enough seamless bras takes away the worry. They go with most outfits. They are supportive. They have no lines. A good seamless bra helps with modesty, confidence, professionalism, and shaping. Let everyone think of you and not your bra lines. A good seamless bra is the best way to be keep people focusing on you, not your chest.

Saturday, August 23, 2008

Convertible Bras - A Must For Spring

The calendar has ticked over officially from the chill of winter to the warmth of spring. Okay, it hasn't exactly warmed up yet, but one can start planning for the warmer weather, right? From an undergarment perspective, convertible bras are the bra for the season.

As the weather warms up, the way your support the girls will change. All winter you've worn clothing that is all about covering as much skin as possible unless you live in Hawaii. If you do live in Hawaii, I am insanely jealous but that is a subject for another article. For the rest of us peasants, the winter is about coverage and keeping the girls warm. Spring changes all that.

Spring fashion is about showing a bit more skin. As temperatures warm up, you can exchange those turtlenecks for sleeveless tops and sun dresses. The full coverage bras you wore through winter don't exactly look great with such outfits. Depending on the cuts of your spring tops, you might need to go with a one strap or no strap bra. Conversely, you might need a racerback configuration that provides full support, but keeps the straps closer to the base of the neck. You can buy individual bras for all these looks, but going with a couple convertible bras might be a better choice.

What is a convertible bra? It is essentially what the name suggests. The bra has straps that can be removed or reconfigured. This makes the brassiere incredibly flexible when it comes to configuring it to particular tops. It can be tailored to practically any look by removing the straps, but the added benefit is the straps can often be moved inward or outward on the cups to create a different vertical line as the straps move up your chest, past the neck and down your back.

So, should you add just one convertible bra to your collection? Nope. Get a couple. What happens is you get used to the comfort and flexibility of the bra. Soon you'll start wearing it instead of your other bras. The wear and tear can make the bra fall apart quickly. To avoid this, find one convertible bra that fits well and is comfortable. Then buy a few of the bras so that you'll be able to switch the bras out between cleanings. Remember, you shouldn't wear a bra more than two days in a row without washing it.

Spring is a time to fling off those heavy, warm winter clothes. Replace your full coverage bras with convertible ones and you'll be set for just about any top you'll wear as the temperatures start to warm up.

Friday, August 15, 2008

Review of Goddess 6080 Rose Bras

The Goddess 6080 Rose Bras are the intended replacement bras for the Goddess 3010 Floral Lace Bras. The Goddess 6080 Rose Bras are wonderful for the fuller busted woman. They go up to a J cup size. They are basically the same bra as the Floral Lace but the flower pattern is a little different. It now has a rose pattern, hence the name change.

There are also a few slight differences that I have noticed between the Goddess 6080 Rose Bras and the Goddess 3010 Floral Lace Bras. There is an extra bit of material under the bra cups in the front of the bra in order to reinforce the underwires. The nude color is just a touch brighter. The straps and the top of the cups have a pretty gentle scalloped mesh edge on them. They are reinforced on the sides but without the extra side molding inside the cup. It makes for a smoother feel on the inside of the bras, plus more room for the girls. There is a smoother center gore without the thread pattern.

The majority of customers that try this bra absolutely love it. It is a very comfortable bra to wear all day. It has almost the same exact fit as the Floral Lace. It offers a lot of support. It has a nice design on it for a large cup bra. It has nice wide straps. It seems to have maximum support, uplift, and shaping. The wire casings are cushiony. Finally, it comes in a large range of sizes. The only thing is that some women want an extra smooth bra like a seamless bra.

The Goddess Rose has a variety of different features. It is a molded, 3 section, full cup bra with reinforced side sling design. It is free of cookies, padding, and lining. It has stretch elastic on the neck edge for ease of fit. It is a matt simplex fabric (88% Nylon, 12% Elastane/Spandex) for uplift and support. The wire casing is cushioned. There is a leotard back with 2 row and 3 column back hook and eye closure for support and prevention of slippage. The limited stretch bra straps are 7/8" wide and provide great comfort all day without digging in. The powernet back has side coverage that provides great anchorage. The seamless sides are 4 ½" long to hold the girls.

If you loved the Floral Lace, you will love the Rose. It is almost identical with just a few minor changes to the floral design, and overall structure. The fit is the same and it is for full figure woman. It provides all the uplift, shaping, and support that you would need. It can be an everyday bra. It is one of the prettier full figure bras that provides good fit and comfort.

Saturday, August 9, 2008

Lingerie in the '60s

The sixties is always thought of as the era of the mini-skirt and associated swinging designs.  But it didn't start out like that.  It all started in London, where I was living at the time. We'd just got through the '50s, which was still an age of austerity in England and much of Europe.

Not a mini-skirt in sight when I finished my compulsory service in the Royal Air Force in 1962.  Skirts were well below the knee, and the glimpse of a petticoat showing below it was very much to be deplored.

The USA was even more conservative, although there was much talk of 'Swinging London' when I visited in '66.  A couple of years earlier, a Swiss colleague had been asked to leave a restaurant in New York because he had a beard.  If you watch a '60s TV show such as "Get Smart" notice how the villains have foreign accents, and wear beards!

I guess it must all have started with the new general availability of "The Pill", as it was referred to.  The young ladies in London, initially, then all over the country, suddenly realised they didn't need to keep the boys under control, they could afford to tempt them!  The designers leapt at this opportunity to bring out new shorter skirts and dresses, and shorter, and shorter...

Another trend had to come into play here, for years girls had worn stockings, usually held up by suspenders,(garters) which hung from a suspender belt, or frequently a girdle.  Much effort was spent to ensure these did not show under the skirt, much like the VPL these days, for fear it would inflame the boys' ardour!

Now with the shorter skirt, stocking tops and all the accoutrements were in view if the girl leant over a little. This would not do, so some idiot invented the pantyhose, or tights (modified dance tights), the ugliest item of female clothing ever (Male opinion). Men's fantasies of women's hosiery were shattered overnight.

The designers had a field day, or several years of them.  Now it was quite possible that underwear, panties or knickers, would be glimpsed, if not displayed, so they had to be redesigned and given an endless array of colours and patterns.

At the other end of the body the once heavily disguised, or embarrassingly peeked bra strap and now part of the decoration, along with two or three more sets of straps.  Women's Bras became a subject that men could mention with only a little embarrassment.  A Plus Size Bra was still in the future.

So began a long era of new designs and different approaches, though we are condemned to see them being re-invented every few years.

Friday, August 1, 2008

Why Must Bra Straps Fall?

You've read up on the proper way to wear a bra. You understand the support is supposed to come from the band around the bottom of the bra. There's only one problem. Your bra straps keep falling off your shoulders and driving you nuts. Why must bra straps fall?

Bra straps can be insanely aggravating. This is particularly true if you are wearing a top wear they can get loose. Slowly you feel them edging towards the outer edge of your shoulder. The minute you reach for something and are distracted, they dive off your shoulder down to your elbow or as far as they can go. It isn't a good look. Even if you catch the straps slipping, it is incredibly annoying to continually have to deal with them.

If you have strap slippage problems, there are a couple of things you can do. The first is obvious - adjust the straps! Sometimes, you can buy an "ender bra". What is an ender bra? It is bra that you try on with the adjustments already set at one end or the other of the available choices. When you go to adjust anything, you find that it is impossible because you are already using the last possible adjustment. Watch out for ender bras!

What if you've tried adjusting the straps this way and that with no luck? There are two possible issues. The first is you need to go down a band size. In doing so, you are going to get more strap adjustment capability, which might take care of things. If a lower band size doesn't fit, it may be time to take a look at a different style and brand of bra. Every bra from every brand is different, so you might find the solution in making this simple change.

There are some other factors to consider. The first might be that your bra is worn out. The straps tend to reveal this when elasticity is lost. Don't mistake straps that are worn out for loose ones. Replace your bra when it wears out because a worn out bra does not provide the support you need.

The second issue might be your anatomy. The idea of bra sizes is somewhat of a laughable one. We do not come in particular sizes. In fact, our two breasts don't even match each other. How then are we supposed to find a standard bra?! With this in mind, there may not be a perfect bra for you. In such a situation, you want to find the bra that fits best regardless of strap slippage. Once you have it, consider buying strap supports. These effectively connect the straps up behind your neck and keep them from sliding down.

Sliding bra straps can be a serious pain in the derriere. Still, give some thought to why they are sliding. The answer could give you some insight into whether you are wearing the right bra size or not.

Saturday, July 26, 2008

Valentine's Day Lingerie - For Both of You!

Boys, if you're looking for a Valentine's present for your girlfriend, and you're not sure whether or not buying sexy lingerie is a good choice, well you can be rest assured, this is a safe bet. Buying sexy lingerie is like buying candy from a store.

Buying sexy lingerie is something that can be fun, fulfilling, and a real self esteem booster, for both of you. Sexy lingerie is a great way to spice up an evening with your partner, and is a wonderful way to add a little romance to your marriage. It is about how it makes you look, but more importantly how it makes you feel. The key is to find styles that look effortless, yet remain sexy and alluring.

There are so many styles of sexy lingerie out there, how do you know which to choose? Some say that lingerie should be sexy yet not racy, pretty but not too frilly or comfy but not frumpy. Most people, regardless of complexion, look stunning in black, white or red. These three colours are the most popular for lingerie items and you can never go wrong with any of them. You will want to consider things like does she (or, do I) like lace or satin? Sexy lingerie, bras and panties are recognized as making a woman look and feel special, because she is, and he will make sure she knows it. There are plenty of lingerie items that leave some mystery, to tantalise the imagination.Often less is more, and by that I mean wearing 'sexy' lingerie is as simple as sexy bras and panties.

One of the classic sexy lingerie items is the Babydoll. Babydolls are often sheer or partially see through with coloured feather trims, cut to expose her panties and tummy. These are one of the most flirtatious lingerie items. 'Boob out' is frequently described as 'open bust' or even 'peek a boo' lingerie. This style of lingerie allows a woman's entire breast to be exposed while other styles allow just the nipple to peek through. If you want a bra that is over-the-top and totally sexy, then a bustier is the appropriate piece of lingerie for you.

Lingerie should make a woman look however she chooses to portray, to herself or to the man in her life. Sexy lingerie needs to make a woman look feminine, while many pieces of lingerie can and should make a woman look absolutely dangerous, dominant and delicious!

Lingerie can make a wonderful gift for a birthday, wedding shower, Valentine's Day or even just to say 'I still love you'. Shopping for Wedding Lingerie items to start your new life together is a great break from the stress of planning of the wedding. Online stores have sexy lingerie for any mood, theme, style or body type.

Going on a shopping spree to the mall for sexy lingerie is still a great way to have a fun day out with the girls, but when women want that totally wild, sexy lingerie meant to make anyone's eyes pop, the freedom and the privacy that shopping online can give you is second to none!

With these minor instructions and a credit card buying sexy lingerie couldn't be simpler!

Friday, July 18, 2008

The Numerous Benefits of Plus Size Bras

Plus size bras have numerous benefits for the heavily endowed woman.  The main benefit is health but there are a variety of societal reasons for wearing plus size bras.  Plus size bras support, cover, and elevate the breast while providing modesty, femininity, and sexuality.

First let's look at the health reasons for plus size bras.  A full figure woman has heavy breasts.  Breast movement is a concern for big busted women.  Unsupported breasts move when you walk around.  They move even more when you exercise.  This causes the damage to the Cooper's ligaments that help support and uplift the breasts.  The result is premature sagging.  A proper plus size bra will prevent movement and damage to these ligaments thus delaying saggy breasts.

Excessive breast movement can lead to neck, shoulder, rib, and back pain.  During activities your breasts can move extensively.  Plus size bras lift the breasts off the chest wall and help support the weight of the breast tissue.  The goal is to minimize movement and support the excess weight by distributing it across the back and shoulders. To help prevent pain, your plus size bras must fit correctly and have a good supportive band. 

Unsupportive breasts can also lead to irritation.  When you exercise, you sweat and your breasts flap against your chest.  This can be uncomfortable and lead to irritation. Sweat collects under the breasts and free flowing breasts continually hit against the chest during movement.  A proper plus size bra will lift the breasts off the chest wall and reduce the sweat and the slap.

The societal reasons for bra wearing are numerous, especially for the plus size woman.  Society expects women to wear bras, especially in the United States.  In fact, we almost demand that woman wear bras, particularly the big busted ones.  Many people view a braless woman as immoral, loose, tasteless, unprofessional, immature, or just out-of-touch with fashion.  By choosing not to wear a bra, a woman is open to all these unflattering opinions about them. It is especially deemed wrong to go braless if you are a full busted woman. 

Wearing a plus size bra helps with modesty.  Bras cover a woman's breast, reduce nipple protrusion, and helps with proper shaping.  By wearing a bra, large busted woman is saying that she is part of the societal norm.  She is modest through her modest covering and she knows what is expected of her.

On the other hand, some bras bring a lot of attention and give an inner satisfaction.  Plus size bras, like most bras, have a variety of colors, shapes, and sizes.  They make a woman feel sexually alluring and some actually accentuate the breasts more.  Bold colors and sexy styles can turn a man on.  They also help lift the breasts in a manner that is youthful.  Bras, such as the push up bra, create more cleavage and bring more attention to the breasts.  However, these are still part of the accepted societal norm.  People are even allowed to show part of their strap or let their bra show through a sheer blouse. 

In today's world, plus size bras are a must for the well endowed.  They lift the breasts from the chest wall preventing sagging and discomfort.  They minimize sweat and nipple protrusion.  They promote modesty and fulfill the societal norms.  They also can promote an inner feeling of beauty and sexiness.  Plus size bras help large breasted woman feel comfortable and supportive in every way. 

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Grasping Bra Fabrics Lead to Comfort

Most discussions regarding bras center on getting the best possible fit. While a good fit is vital, one shouldn't overlook the material bras are made of. Most women will find certain materials are more comfortable than others.

The traditional bra was something just short of tank armor. Although cotton was the stated material, most bras were so rigid and formed that they felt more like two small coffins. Bra design has obviously come a long way since those days. Modern bras are highly flexible, "breathe" and can be tailored to specific body configurations.

One of the key areas of development with modern bras is the material used. Cotton is still the bell weather material, but there are a variety of different fibers used to create different looks and levels of comfort. Let's take a look at some of the materials you might consider when buying your next bra.

Microfiber

Microfiber is the piece de resistance in modern bra materials. As the name suggests, the material is a combination of fibers wound together. The fibers and weave are so small as to be nearly impossible to see with the naked eye. That being said, microfiber is a wonder material because it can be tailored to many different goals. For instance, the material is often used in sports bras because it can be oriented to allow for wickering and evaporation of sweat away from the body. You know the value of this if you exercise a lot or go outside on hot days.

Silk

Okay, everyone knows about silk as a general clothing material, but it also makes an excellent bra as well. Silk provides a light and airy feel, but it is actually a very good insulator. This makes it an excellent material for cool nights, the fall and winter wear. The sheer element of the material also lets you double your basic bra as a piece of lingerie should the moment strike.

Rayon

Rayon bras tend to be on the cheaper side. As with most things, you get what you pay for with rayon. The material is not particularly uncomfortable, but the elements of the bra that incorporate rayon will not last. The material is infamous for losing its shape and wrinkling heavily after only a few uses. In general, Rayon should be avoided where possible.

There are many other materials that can go into a bra, but cotton, microfiber, silk and rayon are very common. Try experimenting with different materials when buying bras. You'll find that certain ones are very comfortable and can make wearing a bra a much better experience.

Friday, July 4, 2008

Bra Shopping - Helpful Tips

Shopping for a bra is probably not that high on your list of fun things to do. With this in mind, you probably also don't put a lot of thought into it. Eventually, this will result in the purchase of bras that simply are not good fits for your body.

Time is not on our side. With the passage of time comes changes to our body. You might gain weight. A lucky few might lose weight. Gravity slowly, but surely, will take its toll. Just as you don't wear the size 1 you wore when you were 16, your bra size is going to change as well. With this in mind, here are some helpful bra shopping tips.

Get Measured

When was the last time you had a professional bra fitting? Can you even remember? Most women go years and years without having it done. This is a big mistake. Your breast will change shape as time passes. If you gain weight, the bust size will grow and so will the measurement around your chest. If you are showing back fat when putting on your bra, the size is most likely wrong. A professional fitting can make a world of difference in how you look and feel.

Mix It Up

When was the last time you bought a different style of bra? Most women buy the same couple of bras over and over. I am certainly guilty of this. The problem with this approach is bra design is improving all the time. Most women can't stand getting poked by underwire bras, for instance, but new designs have minimized the "pokeability" of these bras. It makes a world of difference! Try new bras and you might just find a perfect bra for your body type.

Stop Cramming

Breasts are not like your derriere. There is no benefit to cramming them into a bra size smaller than you should wear. Women with larger busts, however, do this all the time. The breast do not benefit from being crushed into a cup and forced up against the chest wall. Be comfortable with your size. Consider breast reduction surgery if you are really bothered by being a larger size. Crushing the girls is not a healthy approach to the problem.

When it comes to buying bras, don't just automatically follow your usual routine. Think it through, get fitted and try new styles and brands. You might just find the perfect bra.

Saturday, June 28, 2008

Sweat Issues With Your Bra

The weather is finally supposed to be warming up and not a moment too soon. Still, warmer temperatures can lead to a problem with excessive sweating around and insider of your bra. Is there anything that can be done?

Bras are designed to provide support for your girls. There are all kinds of little innovations that are intended to provide that support while giving you the comfort you need to get through the day. All that being said, there is no doubt that wearing bras in warmer temperatures can lead to serious sweat issues. While sweat is just a part of life, there are some steps that can be taken to deal with it.

The body is an amazing heat dispersal mechanism. The skin is the primary organ used to shed heat from our inner cores. This is done by bringing blood to just under the skin surface, opening the pours and letting heat escape. If your bra restricts the exposure of the skin to the air, this system is going to be interrupted. The cups are obviously going to do so, but that can't be avoided. If you are wearing bras that push the breasts together, however, it can. As a result, you might want to change the style of bra you wear.

A second factor to consider is the material the bra is made out of. Some materials will "breathe", which let's air get to the skin. Other materials will actually "wick" the sweat away from the skin as is found with certain sports clothing. Cotton and silk materials breathe well, but you should look into many of the new microfiber materials used with bras. The microfiber materials are tailored to different purposes and some of these are definitely sweat oriented.

At the end of the day, sweat is a natural part of the bodily process. It keeps you from overheating, which is very difficult on the body and can even lead to death in worse case scenarios. A quality bra can minimize the sweat level you experience, but no bra is ever going to completely deal with the problem. With this in mind, don't expect perfection.

Friday, June 20, 2008

How to Shop For Camo Lingerie For Your Wife (Or Girlfriend)

With spring already here, and Mother's Day just on the horizon (it'll be here before you know it), it's come time to think about gifts to give to the most fabulous woman in your life. Make your favorite lady's day by combining two of your favorite things: camouflage and lingerie.

Here are some tips for shopping for camo lingerie.

Finding out her size

The easiest way to find out what size your girl wears is to ask her. But, if you're looking to make her camo lingerie a surprise, it's pretty easy to find out on your own.

One, you can check her underwear drawer. Be sure to check more than one item, so you can get an idea for an average size. Many times, the same sizes differ slightly from store to store, so what's a small at one store may be a medium at another. If your girl has several smalls and only two or three mediums, then it's a safe bet that "small" will be the size you need.

Another option is to check the sizes of her clothes, especially her pants. Although underwear and pants sizes aren't labeled the same, you can find conversion charts on many websites (e.g., "medium" = "sizes 8-10").

And finally, you can always just ask her best friend. She'll usually know.

Choosing the color she'll love in camo lingerie

You may love forest green, but if it's not a color that looks good on her, she probably won't be as happy with it. Make note of the clothing and underwear she wears. See what colors she favors and what colors look best on her.

If she's as big of a camo lingerie fan as you are, then she'll probably be thrilled, no matter what color you choose. If she's more girly than outdoorsy, look for camo lingerie in softer colors like pink.

Shopping online for camo lingerie

An online store gives you several benefits over regular brick-and-mortar stores: no crowds, no wasted gas, no checkout lines, and best of all, no pushy salespeople. You also have a much better selection online than you would from a regular store.

When you're looking for camo lingerie, make sure that you read the store's return policy, in case it doesn't fit your favorite huntress. Some stores will give you one free exchange for a bra if you need a different size.

Saturday, June 14, 2008

Shopping For Women's Bras Doesn't Have to Be a Nightmare For Guys Anymore!

We've all been there guys, the dreaded shopping trip with the wife or girlfriend. It gets even worse when it's shopping for bras or other undergarments. It's bad enough that we have to be there, but get down right scary when they ask us to comment on their appearance in them. I have had enough frightening experiences in Victoria's Secret to last me a lifetime.

There is an answer that will save you the hours in the store and score you some points with your significant other. If you tell your woman that you want to buy her some new sexy lingerie she will be delighted. Then you tell her that you have found some killer sites that you should check out together.

Make an evening of it. Set up at the computer and show her the list of sites that you found and let her browse and shop to her hearts content. You will only have to comment on the items and how they will make her look beautiful, not "how does this look on me?".

The best part is this will all be done from the comfort of your home. No more trudging from store to store and dealing with the very "helpful" sales people. In fact no more dealing with anyone accept your soul mate.

Another huge benefit is that you will actually end up saving some serious dollars in the process. Most of the online retailers have significantly lower prices than your local mall. You can also save some sales tax if the website is based outside the state you live in. Check your local laws, as some states are making you pay sales tax even if the company is based elsewhere.

Friday, June 6, 2008

Using Women's Bras to Change Our Political Future?

As our country faces its greatest financial meltdown in recent history, can we turn to something as simple as women's bras to fix it?

One forward thinking bra manufacturer seems to be trying. Tatiana is a unique line of womens bras that come more difficult to find sizes. You wont find them in your local department store though, as they are not sold there and the company doesn't advertise.

Many of the professional corsetieres who use the Tatiana brand know that it is a dynamic and forward thinking company. Tatiana and quality are often shared in the same sentence. For women with tough to fit bodies, Tatiana is a welcome name.

Tatiana is also synonymous with charity consciousness. The company is making giving to worthwhile causes a way of life for its customers. Instead of asking for customers to give, they are sharing the profits so everybody benefits.

This philosophy is connected to another company called ishopconcious. Ishopconcious is forming an alliance with companies like Tatiana to make giving a way of life. Its founder designs Tatiana's label is driven to spread this philosophy.

If all of the companies in the U.S. incorporated this idea it would truly change our country. Customers will  likely want to buy from companies like these in the future. It will begin to spread as we take the pay it forward mindset.

This article asks if women's bras can change the world, and it seems that it actually might be able to. Ishopconcious has political aspirations as well. The company wants to bring like minded people together to change the course our country has taken in recent years. Using the power of its customers to finance a campaign, it will endeavor to bring a new political party to power. A political party that shares a common belief, and will allow our nation to break away from our failing two party system.

Saturday, May 31, 2008

Knowing When Your Bra Fits Just Right

The vast majority wear a bra that is the wrong size for their body. Given this fact, most women aren't entirely sure what a bra that fits well should feel like. In this article, we provide an answer to that question.

To find the perfect fit in a bra, it is first important to understand the basic function of a bra. Anything with straps suggests a support via hanging component. This is actually incorrect when it comes to bras. A bra should provide roughly 80 percent of the support from the band circling around the bottom of the bra. Put another way, a bra should be doing more pushing up than hanging when it comes to supporting the breasts.

Overall, a bra that fits perfectly will be comfortable first and foremost. When wearing it, your breasts should be sitting midway between your shoulders and your elbows. The band should be snug around your upper chest and back, but not too constricting. No part of the bra should be leaving red lines or spots.

The band running around the base of the bra is incredibly important. This is where you are going to get the vast majority of your support. Get the band right and you will feel much more comfortable. When buying a bra, start with size that fits on the loosest hook. Now constrict the size so that the band is firmly fit around the body, but not too tight. Your goal is to have the band run parallel to the floor around your body. It should be as high on your chest as it is on your back. A quick way to test the fit is to see if two fingers can fit snugly under the band.

The cup size is our next most important factor. Be honest with your cup sizes. If you are bulging out of the cup, you need to go up a size. If there are gaps between the cups and the breast, you need to go down a size. It is that simple. With underwire bras, you can adjust up or down to make sure the wires don't press into the inside of your breast or arm.

Bra straps are incredibly misunderstood. They are supposed to be supplemental support to your girls, not the primary support. The band serves that purpose. To get the perfect fit, your bra straps should be secure but not tight. If they leave red marks, they are too tight. It is better to have them to loose than too tight, so adjust accordingly.

That is it. Focus on the general concept of support from the bottom up and you should be able to find a bra that is perfect for you.

Friday, May 23, 2008

How and Why to Purchase Lingerie Online

Today the internet has made the intimate task of purchasing lingerie online incredibly simple. For anyone who is modest on any level when it comes to actually trying on revealing and erotic lingerie then going through the anxiety-ridden phase of waiting in line and putting down money, online shopping eliminates that panic attack waiting to happen. Why panic or feel anxious over something that you know is ultimately going to satisfy you? There's really no need.

Another reason to shop online is because the selection in your city isn't as appealing or dynamic enough for your wants and needs; the internet offers it to you and in thirty varieties you never thought of! All you really need is your correct measurements and your credit card; After that you can enjoy the process of shopping with thousands of choices to choose from the hundreds of online lingerie stores.

Although online shopping for such a personal pleasure-filled item does lack one crucial thing, an actual fitting of the lingerie, not to mention this enables you to, rightly or wrongly, avoid that super critical stare-down in the dressing room mirror {but that's the first you do when the box arrives in the mail}.

So it goes without saying, when it comes to purchasing delightful beautiful lingerie, you have to measure yourself twice and be doubly aware of how the item is going to fit. Remember that your sexy lingerie is going to stretch at least a little bit, but also remember a tight fit isn't necessarily bad. Just think about when his fingers caress your body, gently, gingerly, teasingly and then they slowly undo the taut straps, tight laces and tense hooks, your body will pop out of the corset and into his arms heaving.

Always remember when it comes to fitting your sexy lingerie that if for some reason you don't get it right, you always have the option to exchange your purchase. Most online merchants provide better customer service than brick-n-mortar stores, because they know they have to do more to win repeat business. This means you're in luck when it comes to making sure whatever piece of intimate apparel you purchase is just right.

In the Age of Christina Aguilera, Paris Hilton and Kim Kardashian, Lingerie has left the bedroom, escapes from the boudoir and become a functional and integral piece of a woman's external wardrobe. Many online stores recognize this and constantly have new designs and fashions added to their stores products.

Modern lingerie, with its elaborate and exotic fabrics, intricate and inventive stitching, evocative cuts, designs and details have dipped into the mainstream of online fashion stores. As it can hint to the confidence and power of the woman wearing and exposing their sexy lingerie; it no longer needs one to visit a local lingerie store to get the latest fashion designs. In fact most lingerie online stores are more quick to get the newest and latest lingerie fashions into their database. It truly is a quick, simple and fun experience to shop online and find your perfect piece of lingerie.

Saturday, May 17, 2008

Plus Size Lingerie - The Perfect Anniversary Gift

Few things can show your partner how much you care about them than remembering your special day. Anniversaries typically mark the day of your marriage or the day of your decision to be together. This special event calls for meticulous preparation: a dozen roses, a large box of chocolates, a candlelit dinner, a rose petal bath, and of course, the perfect day ends with the perfect gift. What gift do you plan on giving your special someone on your next anniversary?

The 1st, 5th, 10th, 15th, 20th, 25th, 50th and 75th anniversaries have special names and there is an established traditional gift to give for each of these, increasing in value as the years go along. For instance for the 5th anniversary one conventionally gave a gift made out of wood, or the modern translation of this gift, silverware. There is also an established flower list of which bouquets to give for which years. For the 5th anniversary one gives a bouquet of daisies. These traditions culminate during the grandest celebrated years: the Golden, Emerald, and Diamond Anniversaries, where, as their name states, one gives gold, emeralds, and diamonds, or in flower terms: yellow roses and violets.

Couples traditionally exchange gifts on the eve of their anniversary, with the man getting something for the woman and vice versa. More often than not for the named anniversaries family and friends also chip in with a gift. Each half of the couple gets to receive their own gift, something exclusively for them such as neckties or jewelry. Why not get something that both will definitely enjoy such as lingerie? Plus size lingerie makes the perfect anniversary gift.

What other gift will delight both partners and will add to their satisfaction as a couple? For women lingerie is something of an art form, delicate fabric that drapes around their curves and reveals all that must be revealed. Plus size lingerie in particular is doubly delightful for women as on one hand it accentuates her best assets to be flaunted and on the other hand, it makes her man extremely happy. For men lingerie is even elevated to something of a holy artifact. Few men can remain intelligible when faced with the seductive properties of a baby doll or any other type of plus size lingerie. With all the cuts and styles to choose from, the only dilemma that you may ever have is whether to get one piece or two and the only problem would be waiting for the anniversary night.

Lingerie shops cater to many different sizes, from AA to DDs. Recently even plus sized erotic lingerie can be found on the racks, proving that sexiness discriminates against no one. Very helpful salespersons will also assist any man lost in the world of women's fashion to help him find the perfect lingerie piece.

Whether you're celebrating your anniversary or are a friend of the couple, why not get a gift that will be appreciated and not kept away with the silverware? Plus size lingerie makes the perfect anniversary gift.

Saturday, May 10, 2008

The Value of a T-Shirt Bra

Every wardrobe is built from the bottom up. The bottom, of course, refers to the foundation clothing you have. When it comes to undergarments, t-shirt bras certainly should be one of your foundation documents.

Bras are called delicates for a reason. Picture one in your mind and lace, frill and what have you comes to mind. Ah, but what about a real foundation document that is all about comfort, support and creating a subtle undergarment appearance? The t-shirt bra is the answer if you are looking for these aspects.

A t-shirt bra gets its name not because it looks like a t-shirt in any way. Instead, the name comes from the fact this is the one bra that can always be worn with a t-shirt without creating a seen due to how it shows under the shirt. The t-shirt bra is a soft, seamless contoured cup masterpiece. It is also incredibly comfortable and a real winner for any wardrobe.

To truly understand the value of t-shirt bra, just think about the tops you wear. Have you put on a top and then changed because of the way it fits across your bra? You know - those super thin tops that let just about everything show through? How about clingy tops? The t-shirt bra is the answer. You can provide support to the girls without showing it because the bra is all about soft lines and angles. You'll hardly notice it through even the thinnest shirts.

The material used for t-shirt bras is an additional benefit as well. Why? The material is usually a microfiber configuration. Cotton is wonderful, but microfiber is engineered to address certain needs. This means many microfiber t-shirt bras will pull moisture away from your skin when it is hot out. This is another reason they are called t-shirt bras since they tend to minimize or eliminate ugly sweat marks.

Is the t-shirt bra appropriate for every occasion? No. For exercise, go with a full sports bra. For more formal looks, you are probably going to want to wear a specific bra appropriate for the look you are trying to achieve such as a balcony, plunge or other undergarment piece.

If you don't have a t-shirt bra in your undergarment collection, you should get one. It is incredibly comfortable and the perfect bra for day to day living.

Saturday, May 3, 2008

Understanding Bra Terminology

The modern bra may seem a fairly simple garment. You have a band, two straps and two cups, right? Yes, but the devil is in the details. A modern bra can actually have upwards of 20 different pieces, which means you need to understand the terminology being used. In this article, we take a look at some terms you might not know.

Gore

What the heck is a "gore"? The gore is the piece that is between the cups and is part of the band. This little strip is important for two reasons. Obviously, the first is it connects the cups between the breasts. The more subtle importance has to do with fit. The gore should be flat against your chest. If it sits off the chest, then the bra band size is too small. Going up a size will make your bra fit better.

Wicking

Wicking is a term used to describe the material used in your bra. Wicking is the act of pulling moisture away from the skin. Certain microfibers used in bras will do this. If you sweat around your girls, this is the perfect material. Ask for microfiber bras that wick and you'll be much more comfortable, particularly as we run into summer.

Wings

Bras have wings? Oh, yes. Wings are the area of the bra that run from the outer edge of the cups around your body to the middle of the back. The wings are usually a firm elastic material. Why are they important? The secure the bra, but they also are a good way to determine how the bra is performing. When the bra starts to wear, the wings will stretch and start to show fraying. That's when you know it is time to replace the bra.

Slings

If your breasts become sore easily, you need to consider the prospect of wearing bras with slings. Despite the name, slings actually ride along the inside of the cup of the bra and provide tremendous support in the lower cups... They may sound like push up bras, but there is minimal push up impact. Instead, it is just a bra with tremendous comfort and massive support. Short of a sport bra, the sling bra is one of the most comfortable you can wear.

Finding the perfect bra can be difficult. Understanding the terminology involved is half the battle. Educate yourself and you stand a great chance of finding a bra that is close to a perfect fit for your bra type.

Saturday, April 26, 2008

Buying Lingerie - A Quick Guide For Men When Buying Lingerie and Underwear For Their Woman

Guys, before you set out to buy your lovely lady something special from the lingerie department, here are a couple of tips to help you pick out something that she really will enjoy.

First of all, buying lingerie for your sweetheart can be both an intimate and thoughtful present, but it depends on how you do it. If you are not careful, she might perceive your present, as merely you acting like a pervert.

So before you buy, consider why it is that you want to buy her lingerie? If it is just to see her in an especially slutty schoolgirl or nurse's costume, you are probably just going to get yourself into a huge heap of trouble!

The last thing you want is to end up sleeping alone or being in the doghouse because she took your present the wrong way. However, if you do get it right, your little surprise can be an especially sweet gesture of affection.

If you know her well, you will know what she likes. If she never wears a g-string, chances are she will still not want to wear one even if you buy it for her. Think of what kind of styles and patterns she usually likes. She will notice that you were considerate in your purchase, and it will help your present be something that gets used instead of just something that gets shoved in the back of her drawer.

Next, know your sizing. Even if you are absolutely clueless about the ins and outs of women's under things, there is an easy way to find out. Simply look for a bra she has left lying around or find one in her underwear drawer. Write down the sizes; this will make it very easy to find something that will fit her. Underwear sizes come in small, medium, and so on, or they come in number sizes. If you can, find a pair that has a number size, as that is more specific, and will guarantee a better fit.

Next, it will help if you know a little bit of basic lingerie terminology. Obviously, you are probably aware of bras and panties. Camisoles are like a bra with a built in sheer part that covers the midriff. Teddies are like little one piece's that cover the whole torso. Either of these are a great choice for a man to buy as a present because they suggest romance instead of kinkiness or lustiness.

Finally, a few last minute tips to help you avoid disaster. Do not buy anything that says 'control' or 'reducing,' or anything like that on the label. You can see how a present like that might be misinterpreted as you calling her fat.

In the same way, cleavage-enhancing bras could be interpreted as you calling her flat chested. And once again, avoid getting kinky items, because that generally does not say 'I love you.'

Then, finally, it is time for you to get to enjoy picking something out! Pick something that you know she will look ravishing in! Silky, lacy, or a colour you really like on her. Something like this will definitely send the message of how much you care for her and how beautiful you think she is.